Co-Parenting With A Narcissist

Co-Parenting With A Narcissist

Narcs view children as objects, they don’t know how to be responsible and share parental responsibilities. I remember my narc would hide during every special event, holiday, or school function. Suddenly in that moment he would become busy,and work was of course top priority over our marriage and family. You will spend more time undoing the narc damage from your children then trying to effectively co-parent. Unconditional love is non existent. You must do as told, feel as the narc feels, and follow the basic commands of the narc. Whether your narc was the mother or the father of your children is irrelevant as the abuse is the same. They will say one thing and do another, empty promises, and broken hearts with a trail of destruction being left behind. My narc only remembers the children exists during his every other weekend visits when he changes his social media cover photo to include them in it, beyond that their is no involvement. Keep your expectations low when dealing with narcissists.
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