It is so imperative to NOT take claim or ownership for someone else’s behavior and actions. The best advice in uncovering your true self, is learn about narcissism, and then allow yourself time to heal, while focusing on all the good you can still achieve. Narcissists are very ego driven, their central focus is themselves, therefore, they do what is necessary for only them. Whereas they can never grow, never love, never have a true loving committed relationship with anyone. You can grow, you can move forward, and you can love again.
“Absorb the good, discard the bad, and through it all be true to YOU.” ~♥~