The truest words ever spoken. In order to reclaim and rebuild your life, the focus must always be on “YOU”. Remember that you’re not responsible for the narc behavior, you did nothing to provoke them, it’s not something you can change, nor fix, it’s something that’s part of their makeup, it’s in essence their problem. Release those emotions to the rightful owner and go day by day in reclaiming what is rightfully yours to claim. It will not happen overnight, but you can begin to move forward to claim your true authentic self.